Yesterday I did something for the first time and it was easy and felt great. I told a guy that I didn’t think a second date was a good idea because I didn’t feel much of a connection. He said, “okay, that’s fair,” and that was it. I didn’t have to make up any lame excuses. It was awesome.
A few months back I was seeing a guy who I thought was awesome. We had tons in common and I thought we clicked. Well he actually wasn’t so awesome because he didn’t have the balls to tell me that he didn’t feel a spark until three (3!) weeks after our seventh (7!) date in a month.
We had gone to see Guster together so he ended things with “two points for honesty?” I didn’t reply. And I defriended him on facebook.
As I just learned, it’s not incredibly difficult to be honest and that honesty doesn’t usually take weeks to come by.